The Art of Romantic Gifts

by Carol Sullivan
(Colorado Springs CO)

Many people believe that romantic gifts must be expensive in order to impress. But, I have found that more importantly, a romantic gift needs to convey that you have invested time and energy into it. And that you "get" your mate.

Lingerie? Sure, it can make her feel sexy and beautiful. But, if she is feeling less that perfect, it may make her feel insecure.

The most wonderful and memorable romantic gifts are very personal. A client of mine sent his wife an auto first-aid kit. Now before you say, "how stupid was he?" read on: His wife had to travel for business and be gone for Valentine's Day. He sent her the kit with a note that said "To keep my love safe until she returns so I can keep her safe." She loved it!

At my company, we sell a Message in a Bottle. It is not expensive, but each one is filled with a thoughtful message to your love. Some are set to poetry, or a couple's favorite song, a heartfelt apology, or we even get marriage proposals! It takes some time and effort to do something special, so let your partner know you made the journey to that perfect gift with them in mind.

My friend's husband knew she had always admired a collectible figurine collection, but money was tight for the young family. So one year, he surprised her with a set of these figurines. It seems he had put them on layaway at a boutique, and made payments for almost TWO YEARS! She still says it was the most romantic thing he ever did for her.